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Hello and Happy Friday!

All day long—–you are seduced—–yes—-all —-and I do mean all—-day long——

YIKES—into what —you ask???

I mean really——-I don’t know about you—but if I ‘m being seduced—-I’d  seriously like to know exactly what I am allowing myself to be seduced into!

You have one massive seduction mechanism.

The power of your thoughts—-the suggestions you are giving to your self—-all day long—- seemingly—-so  innocently seduce you into believing them. The thing is—YOU fully allow it to happen—over and over and over.

Now that is one seduction I want to be in charge of!! NO question about that.

Richard Bach says:

“Argue for your limitations and sure enough they’re yours!’

How often do YOU do that? How often do you speak about your limitations?? How often do you convince yourself—and rationalize  that you are not actually really arguing for your limitations—but rather just stating what is??


How often are you literally seducing yourself into believing them????

Do you find yourself saying “seemingly” innocuous things such as… I never have, I can’t, I never do, now is not the right time and maybe it will never be the right time, I haven’t done that before, it will be hard, I’m too old, I’m too young, there’s no time for me, I’m not smart enough,  my kids are too young  or too old, I’m always tired at the end of the week/day, this always happens to me, the economy is holding me back,  maybe I’m meant to be alone, finding a good guy/girl is soooooo hard, bad things keep happening to me, it’s just part of getting old or of being young, I never have enough money, I always attract, that is too expensive, I can’t go on vacation now, I’m just not good at……..etc…etc………..Ughhhhhhhhhhhhh…..

Here’s the thing—you can always find people that will agree with you and maybe even form support groups around it…BUT is that what you really really really want?

Do you really want to be in that place of “arguing for your limitations’??????

Open the door today….. invite your limitations to take a friggin flying leap out the door..and ask yourself…

What if that weren’t true?

Be in charge of your own seduction….Mmmmm……isn’t just the very thought of that freeing????

Now— that —IS  something to think about.

Gail 🙂


What if I told you that there was this cool part of your brain that acts like a heat seeking missile and programs  your  mind to work on your goal whether you realize it or not???

Yes—it is real–and you can very simply and powerfully activate that beautiful part of your brain to go on autopilot and get you what you really really–I mean  REALLLLLY want—- now!

This glorious part of your brain is called the Reticular Activating System. It is very, very ‘real’. I mean—imagine if you could decide on what you wanted and automatically ‘something’ went to work to make sure that you got just that! WOWEEE!!!

Imagine if you didn’t have to consciously look for opportunities, if you didn’t have to think about ‘how’ you were going to do the things you wanted to do, imagine if the opportunities themselves presented themselves to you all by themselves ‘as if by magic’.

Ooooooohhh—Yummy magic—I bet you are thinking right now—–Hey–I’d like some of that magic!

Quick—what do I do?????? Gimme my magic….

First let me say now that this is not science fiction, its science fact. You DO possess the ability to set your unconscious mind on auto pilot to assist you in getting those goals you so deeply desire.

So –what the heck is your RAS (Reticular Activating System)?

Let’s imagine you are at a party and there is a lot of people talking, music playing and general party noise.  You are talking to your friend and the two of you can hear each other just fine. Now … you can hear all of the talking and noise going on around you. The 30 or so people all talking at the same time- however– make for a ‘crowd chatter’ none of which you are paying any particular attention to, or are you? If the music and talking just stopped instantly, would you be able to repeat what everyone in the room had just said? Probably not.  Does that mean you didn’t hear it? Absolutely not!

Now imagine that you are back at the party and the hustle and bustle is going on, you are back chatting to your friend and amongst the 30 or so people talking, someone says YOUR name.  Now.. you heard THAT didn’t you !? …… your ears perk up, you turn your head and you look straight over to where the sound came from, often directly into the eyes of the person who said it. Now how does THAT work !?

Well, your oh so cool RAS is like a filter between your unconscious and your conscious mind. It is a pleasure seeking, and recognition system that works in the background, in your Unconscious mind to identify, recognize, and bring into our conscious awareness anything that is important to us.  Guess what else it looks for? It looks for affirmations, evidence to back up our beliefs and brings them into our awareness as it finds them. That my dear friends— is why goal setting is so important, or rather why EFFECTIVE  CLEAR goal setting is so important!!  It is also why it is so friggin important that we use only empowering language when we communicate with ourselves.

I am really trying to make a critically helpful point here—so listen up. J  Have you ever noticed how if you say you can’t do something you are always right? Conversely—if you say you can do something—you can! Henry Ford said ‘If you think you can or you think you can’t, you are right.

REMEMBER—Your unconscious mind only deals in positives, so it takes the words ‘I can’t’ as instruction to DO the process of can’t, and then your RAS looks for evidence to back up your belief! WHOAAAA!

The same thing is true if you state things in the positive, if you say ‘I can’ then INSTANTLY your RAS sets about looking for evidence to back that up, brings it into your awareness and re-enforces the belief that you ‘CAN’. Can I hear an AMEN HERE??!

Your RAS looks everywhere to find the evidence or pleasurable item it is seeking, including what you have going on internally! Ever heard the phrase ‘Fake it till you make it’??  I prefer to say we create the vision in our mind of how we DO want it—step into it—and then add the magic element of feeling and VOILA–your RAS gets real busy to make it happen!

You see once you have given the suggestion or vision  to your unconscious mind your RAS will go to work to seek pleasure and closure and to ‘prove’ your suggestion to be correct!!

What is your RAS seeking to prove correct for you right now????

Cheers to you!



I want you to imagine that all, yes I mean ALL your thoughts were currency.

Are some of you uttering a few choice expletives right now???

Maybe some of you are feeling pretty darn cool about what your currency is getting you!!

If you are feeling good about that concept —–BRAVO to you—your life is rich and filled with what you choose to spend your thoughts on!!!

However——-if you uttered an expletive earlier—-then you unhappily realized that if your thoughts were currency, then you’ve been spending them—– maybe—- on some good stuff——but——–also on a whole bunch of stuff you don’t want now, never wanted and certainly nothing you want to put in a friggin savings account for a rainy day!!! OMG!

I’m telling you—-that whole concept of thoughts being currency sure does shine one massive bright light on what we are thinking about.

Remember that ALL your thoughts create—-yes–every single one.

So allow me to emphasize this———choose the ones that will bring you what you DO want. Period.

Spend your currency wisely!!!



If I tell you NOT to think about think about a  purple tree–what do you think about??

YUP–a purple tree!

We cannot not think about what we do not want to think about without thinking about it! 


We have tended to be a society that focuses on what we do not want—I mean after all we think it is good to process it all and talk about where we at –and so so and so on etc…ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh……

Oh and by the way—-we also like to share it with people, and there is never a shortage of people to commiserate with and support us in this place.

All of that only enhances the focus on what we do not want.

None of it —gets you closer to what you want EVER.

In life –you absolutely get what you focus on.

You get what you expect—period. It  is really that simple.

Use the quick fix that creates magic—

Simply say: Won’t it be nice when I am thinking about what I want….and then also insert how you want to feel…Won’t it be nice when I am feeling…. remembering that behind the words–the feelings are the most powerful magnetic attractor. Trust  me on that one!

The “won’t it be nice” phrase IS an instant game changer. It gently but powerfully shifts your thoughts AND your feelings —in a sweet way that gets complete buy in from the Captain of your ship—YOUR unconscious mind—!

Won’t it be nice when —-you go on out there now and FOCUS on that which you want and have some fun!






Success is yours if….


I hope you  are having an abundantly awesome April–I AM! WOWWWEEE!

The powerful question that follows below can be a serious life changer—read it —take a deep breath–and then go ahead and answer it —

Grab a piece of paper and have FUN–write down everything you can think of and then take a step forward–towards anything on the list–I mean anything—just one step–you will be amazed how the Universe conspires to support you!

Here you go—-


Go ahead–yes you—–the Universe is waiting……………………………. 🙂