Hello!

How often do you use the word “try”? If you are like most of us —you use it often. It is very often the default response when we are not quite sure whether we really want to do something. It can also come about when we have some doubt as to whether it will work. “Try” may feel safe to us.

Basically by “trying”—we release our responsibility. Oh boy—the bottom line is that this will not get us what we so desire in our lives. It will get us just exactly what we are stating. It will get us a whole lot of trying. It will not get the results. Sometimes we can get quite elegant in our trying. The truth is –it is still just trying.

Remember your words are powerful. Your words send a direct message to you unconscious mind. Your unconscious mind is the Captain of your ship. The Captain wild follow your directions. It does not judge what you tell it, it only follows your commands, not some of them, ALL of them! WHOA! Think about that. I know you know what that means!

Okay—lets have some fun right now! I want you all right now to TRY to read whit I am writing. I want you to try really heard to read these next words—Ok—here it is—the words are -ACTION IS THE KEY.. Did you try really hard, I mean extra hard to read that word? Come on– I am serious about this. If any of you actually read those four words, then BRAVO—you will not get the trying award for today. If any of you actually di not read all four of those words, then I applaud you for being successful in the trying department. The thing is that now you do not know the secret to success, because you were so busy trying!

Our faithful Star Wars friend Yoda says: “Do or do not, there is no try”.
Simple, straightforward and powerful.

I beckon you to take notice of the use of the word “try” in your daily life. Have some fun with it—no judgment. Just notice.

Hooray for you—just by dong that you are already in action mode!

Cheers for now—I am off into action!
Gail

How To Make Friends That Will Bring Passion Into Your Life?????

It’s great to have goals in life and know where you’re going. It’s even WAY better if you’re passionate about it, and get energized by it everyday!!

But being driven by your passions can feel lonely sometimes. 🙁 …………………………

BUT wait—-read on…………………….

Ideally, what would really make you happy, is having friends and people who are as passionate as you are, or more!

Or at least, have friends you can talk to about your passions, without feeling like you’re too different…Cheers to that one!

You could share your fears and hesitations with these people. Being driven involves taking risks. You need some support from people who can understand you. And ultimately, you’d be able to share your success with these great friends.

 I want to share with you some simple tips to meet and make friends with such people.

YOU HAVE TO LEARN HOW TO KEEP A CONVERSATION GOING!!

 
Holding conversations is very important because it’s the first step in meeting new people. It determines if you’re going to get to know them… or not. If you know how to do it, you’ll get a chance on discovering the people you meet. And that first communication will allow you to know if they are the kind of person that will understand you, be your friend, go out with you, have fun, and go on adventures together.
If you don’t know how to do it, you’re really going to miss out on making friends with great people. Even if you meet them, you won’t be able to create a connection, and keep in touch.

Ready for the HOW???

Tip #1: No Pressure !

Stop the self-consciousness. That’s key.
In fact, the number one thing that makes us run out of things to say is we put too much pressure on ourselves.
We often try to only say what sounds cool, interesting or impressive. You have to realize that as soon as you ask yourself “is what I’m about to say cool enough?”… You get in your head… and create an awkward silence.
Avoid that altogether. Try talking about anything that goes in your mind, I think you’ll get surprised at how well people respond to that.

Tip #2: The “Interesting-Tell-Me-More” technique
This is an universal technique that ALWAYS works.
People like to talk and be listened to. And they especially love to talk about themselves. If someone starts to talk, ask them to tell you MORE! Most importantly, show that you’re interested. If you have to, raise your eyebrows a little and smile – that’s a non-verbal invitation for the other person to keep talking.
 

Tip #3: Focus on your hobbies and interests
When you meet people that like what you like, it’s easy to keep in touch and make friends. BJT WHERE DO YOUR FIND THEM??? They are out there! You can find such people in specialized internet forums, or specialized events around the hobby or subject. Seek and you shall find!

Tip#4: Meet people who are already looking for friends
Instead of going and trying to make friends with people who already have lots of people in their lives, go to people who are also looking for friends. These can be people who just came to the city or people who go to meetups. This is a GREAT way to start meeting people that are open-minded enough to share your passions with. I know someone who joined a fundraiser group and knew no one–and met her next best friend there!

Take the risk—don’t wait until you have have someone to go out with —waiting never works—seize the day and go for it!

Remember nothing risked —nothing gained!

 YOUR FRIENDS ARE WAITING FOR YOU!!

Gail 🙂

Happppppppy October!

I LOVE this time of the year!!!

Here’s a POWERFUL quickie for your Monday…

Do you know…………….that…………………………

You don’t see things as—– they are…….

YOU actually see things as—– YOU ARE…….

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH boyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy..

I mean—–whoaaaaa—– I want you to realllllllllllly think about that today….

We see everything through our perceptions, our filters and  our very own unique set of lenses.

Now for many of us that can either be empowering and unlimited—OR for a lot of us that can be limiting and not exactly empowering.

You know when I decided it was time to take some action towards living in my dream house — I really had to consciously rework my unconscious patterning that said “you don’t have enough money, you can’t afford it, you don’t deserve it, you haven’t saved enough, you haven’t been smart enough about money, etc… etc… etc.. etc. (Thank you Time Line Therapy and Instant Visioning!!!) 🙂

IF I had tried to manifest my dream house from “how I was” then I would never have taken another step forward—and I would have still been living with a view of the freeway!

Yet—-here I sit writing these words today—-gazing out at my stunning panoramic view of the Pacific Ocean after pouring a cup of coffee from my glorious sun washed state of the art kitchen!

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm……what are you seeing “as you are” that limits you?????

Come on now—–it’s time to shift out of that “limiting perception” and into UNLIMITED POSSIBILITY!

HERE WE GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!

Gail

Hello—

Here is an interesting thought for you today…………………

What if instead of—— “fretting repeatedly”

You——“EXPECTED repeatedly”

The bottom line is—-you GET what you focus on. PERIOD.

EXPECT that which you want…REPEATEDLY!!

Have fun and be lighthearted with it and remember —Do NOT try to figure out how it wil come!

(Hint—It pushes it away) !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Gail 🙂

Hello !!

Fall is right around the corner!!

How would you like to have an outrageously successful Fall ??????????????

Tune in and listen Wednesday – -September 19th 2012 from 6:30 -7 AM PST!!

Yes—I’m back on the radio!

Listen and you could be the lucky winner of your very own complimentary session with me!!

Oh yes — AND I will be offering some very special deals! HOOORAY!

Hmmmmm—-How are you doing on those goals you decided to reach this year?

 Do you need some help??

Would you like to move faster??

Ready for some powerful quick fixes???

Get your pen and paper ready and plan to tune in and listen !!

Come on—- Lets have some FUN!

Get ready for a great show THIS Wednesday September 19th 2012 from 6:30-7AM PST

JOIN ME for a rock solid 30 minutes of juicy information and great tips as I host my own show on Seeing Beyond www.seeingbeyond.com

The show will be broadcast live on KEST 1450 AM in San Francisco OR you can listen to it streaming live online at www.kestradio.com

IF you are unable to listen live you can listen any time later to the archived program at www.seeingbeyond.com or directly on my website @ www.heartofyoursuccess.com

 I’ll “see” you on the radio!

Gail