Happppppppy October!

I LOVE this time of the year!!!

Here’s a POWERFUL quickie for your Monday…

Do you know…………….that…………………………

You don’t see things as—– they are…….

YOU actually see things as—– YOU ARE…….

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH boyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy..

I mean—–whoaaaaa—– I want you to realllllllllllly think about that today….

We see everything through our perceptions, our filters and  our very own unique set of lenses.

Now for many of us that can either be empowering and unlimited—OR for a lot of us that can be limiting and not exactly empowering.

You know when I decided it was time to take some action towards living in my dream house — I really had to consciously rework my unconscious patterning that said “you don’t have enough money, you can’t afford it, you don’t deserve it, you haven’t saved enough, you haven’t been smart enough about money, etc… etc… etc.. etc. (Thank you Time Line Therapy and Instant Visioning!!!) 🙂

IF I had tried to manifest my dream house from “how I was” then I would never have taken another step forward—and I would have still been living with a view of the freeway!

Yet—-here I sit writing these words today—-gazing out at my stunning panoramic view of the Pacific Ocean after pouring a cup of coffee from my glorious sun washed state of the art kitchen!

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm……what are you seeing “as you are” that limits you?????

Come on now—–it’s time to shift out of that “limiting perception” and into UNLIMITED POSSIBILITY!

HERE WE GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!

Gail

Happy Monday!!

Here’s a fabulous quote for today!!

THEN LIFE WOULD BEGIN

 “For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin — real life.

 But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be got through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid.

 Then life would begin.

 At last it dawned on me that these obstacles WERE my life.”

 ~ Father Alfred D’Souza

OHHH BOY!!

 How many times have you thought —Oh yes…I will…. when…..I am ….it is…..you will….they will…..

Then with full resolute—you are sure that just as soon as you figure…it……out….then you WILL! FOR SURE—and yet………….you still …………………….wait…………

The time is NOW—and YOU ARE IN THE DRIVERS SEAT!!

Where are you going??

Until the next time…..Gail

Hello again!

A worthy wisdom tip for you today!

“IF YOU ALWAYS THINK”If you always think what you’ve always thought,
you’ll always feel the way you’ve always felt.The Law of Attraction is basically  about our personal point of attraction or our vibration.

If you always feel the way you’ve always felt,
you’ll always do what you’ve always done.

If you always do what you’ve always done,
you’ll always get what you’ve always gotten.

If you always get what you’ve always gotten,
you’ll always think what you’ve always thought.

~ Unknown

Okay—so it may be  hard to imagine that human beings have a vibration however, our body is as much of an electromagnetic system, as it is a chemical one.

Do you know that our electrical circuitry consists of our nervous system and our subtle energy or meridian system?
The Chinese have known about this ‘other’ system for thousands and thousands of years!

We here in the Western World, are just beginning to learn about how the condition of our electrical system affects our health, happiness and quality of life.

From my studies of the Law of Attraction, here’s what I believe contributes to our vibration.

VIBRATION = FOCUS  + THOUGHT + FEELING

Now–remember that on many occasions I speak about our FEELING and how it is our feelings that always rule over fact–and it is our feelings that will ultimately attract the like…..yes..this is 100% true!!!!

OK—back to vibration—Our vibration varies from low to high based on what we focus our attention on — plus what we think
about what we are focusing on —  plus how this subject makes us feeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeel.

Basically, this describes the glass half full (higher vibration) vs the glass half empty (lower vibration) opposing points of view. Same glass, same water but two different perceptions. Same subject and two individuals could have two totally different thoughts, feelings
and perceptions about it.

This is  in line with what I wrote above— ‘If You Always Think’. If we fail to make a conscious effort to think AND feel in new and more positive ways, we will continue to get what we’ve always gotten, attracted or drawn into our life. We’ve probably all known at least
one person who keeps repeating the same patterns, experiences over and over again! 

If we think we will always be in debt, we will. If we think we will never find our beloved, we won’t. If we think we are destined to develop the same disease that our parent or grandparent had, we will. If we think that everything always works out for me, it will. If we think that I always date great and generous people we will. If we think we always have fun, we will! This IS the Law of Attraction in action! Yup–you bet it is!

What to do??

NOTICE WHAT YOU ARE FOCUSING ON, THINKING AND FEELING!!

If you want to change your focus……………………………..

Close your eyes—take TWO BIG deep breaths and be playful and have fun changing your thoughts…..just like when you were a little kid at Christmas and you imagined what Christmas morning would be like……………………..

Yessssssssssssssss…that’s right….just …like …..that…………………..

Here’s to you wisely using the wisdom of the day!

Gail

Happy Leap Year!

Are you ready to leap into results?????

Remember the power lies in the question. My research has showed that there is a slightly different way to phrase a popular NLP question that we as practitioners often ask. YUP—we are always improving too! In making this slight change—-I am finding that a powerful shift occurs.

What is that ONE question????

What is the result I have in mind?”

YES!!! This is called the RESULT STATE OF MIND question.  Use this question— use it all the time and you will notice your whole world changing for the better.

NOW—notice what 3 questions sound verrrrrrrrrrry similar BUT ought NOT to be asked!

1. “What do I want?”

Asking “what do I want” can trigger a state that many people find not all that useful. The “wanting it” state. If you prefer–you can start with this question, but move into the RESULT STATE OF MIND question fast or you risk being stuck in wanting for a longggggggggg time. Oh yes—this is the question that I had used for quite some time—-and as I said you can begin with this one—but—ask the results question right afterwards—and notice the shift!

2. “What do I hope to accomplish?”

Questions based on accomplishment have some great power in them, because they make getting the result UP TO YOU. However—the biggest problem with this specific question is “hope”. Hope tends to put getting the result outside of you, while accomplishing the goal is up to you. This kind of question may end up diluting your focus. REMEMBER—Hope is NOT a strategy!

3. “Why do I never get things done?”

YIKES!! Ask this specific question, and you never will get anything done, including getting an answer that will FREE YOU. Whoaaaaa—listen, if you are ready to make some changes, one of the most powerful things you can do is ELIMINATE most of your why questions, because they are mostly a big waste of time.

Lets’ get BACK TO THE POWER OF THE BASICS!

Try this sequence below.  Notice how it focuses and energizes you.

1.  “What is the result you / I have in mind?”

This question will focus you on the SPECIFIC WHAT.

2.  “What are the 3 main benefits of this result?”

This question will help you understand what you realllllllllly do desire, and help you also access the energy needed to get this done.  This specific question may also refine or totally redefine “the result you have in mind”!!!

3.  “What 3 things can I do starting right now on this?

Ok—now come on—-not starting later this week, not starting later today, starting right now.  For example—(1) I jotted down a note, (2) put it by my monitor, and (3) made a commitment to write THIS ARTICLE.

WOOHOO—this article is a direct result of using these questions!

 I want to help YOU get results! You can NOW trade your reasons and confusions for results.

 The way to get that started is to use the question that results —–in—-THE RESULT STATE OF MIND.!!

Have some FUN—-get focused –get results!

Gail